Jennifer Livingston: "No More
Bullies!" She Says
In today’s world, it
is no surprise that bullying has dominated most schools yet most people
immediately assume that bullying only exists within schools and that no other
groups of people besides students can be victims of verbal abuse.
Unfortunately, this is not the case; not only are students the victims of
bullying, but now, so are adults in public workplaces.
Such a horrible event
transpired around the first week of October, when a Wisconsin news anchorwoman,
Jennifer Livingston, was more or less attacked due to her weight. It turns out
that a young man, Kenneth Krause, wrote an email to Livingston, stating that
she is an unsuitable role model for young girls because she is overweight. The
email details further by informing Livingston that she has had many years to
improve her physical condition, yet has simply chosen not to.
At
first, Livingston simply ignored the personal attack since she has always been
a strong person, but since she is a mother to three adorable children, she
realized that they might interpret the situation differently and others might
as well. Due to this, Livingston then discussed the incident for about 4
minutes in a small segment on her news channel, WKBT-TV in La Crosse, in which
she acknowledged the fact that she was indeed overweight, but realized it was
cruel and unfair of Krause, a complete stranger, to actually attack her for it
and deem her worthless because of it.
After
her husband, also an anchor person in WKBT-TV, posted the email in Facebook, an
overwhelming support hugged Livingston, praising her for her courage and
dignity in handling the situation. Jennifer Livingston was also hailed as a
hero and as an inspiration for young kids fighting bullies and abuse for daring
to be different.
And
I have to admit I fell in love with her when at the end of her segment,
Jennifer Livingston looked straight at the camera and stated: "To all of
the children out there who feel lost, who are struggling with your weight, with
the color of your skin, your sexual preference, your disability, even the acne
on your face, listen to me right now: Do not let your self-worth be defined by
bullies.”
I
felt this article was extremely important because once again, the grave issue
of bullying was brought up, especially since October is national anti-bullying
month. This event also shone light on the fact that bullying happens everywhere
and affects everyone, including adults at professional work places. This article
also caught my eye because I enjoy reading about good things that happen in the
world because with the high gas prices and depressing economy, such inspiring
events seem rarer so they should be cherished greatly. This article also
attracted my attention because it made me realize that heroes are ordinary
people with extraordinary hearts that do not need to stop a burning building
from collapsing, but simply need to motivate others to be better, if at least
for one day.
As a
high school student, this article impacted me because it made me want to be a
better person by helping anybody that I can, even if it is something quite
small because it can truly make a difference even though I may not be aware of
it. I am sure when Jennifer Livingston and her husband posted the hurtful
letter, she did not expect to receive such an overwhelming positive response,
nor did they imagine the many lives she inspired that sparked YouTube videos
and interviews on popular daytime shows.
As a
future filmmaker this piece of news affected me because it serves as a warning
of the possible events that can transpire by being a public figure in the
entertainment industry. It taught me that my movies or tv shows will not be the
only elements criticized, but I will be scrutinized as well, along with my
personal life. Yet, it shows me that I can also be superior and rise above such
comments just like Jennifer Livingston which is what truly defines her as a
person.
As a
consumer, this article affected me because now I will want to watch
Livingston’s news channel (if possible) to determine how she will further
handle the situation if it is brought up again. It also encourages me to look
at other public figures to discover if they have been attacked in a similar
manner and if they managed to handle the situation as well as Livingston did.
After
reading this article, I was flooded with many questions regarding the thoughts
and emotions of Kenneth Krause. In the article, he stated that he did not
intend to hurt Livingston nor act like a bully, yet in this case, words
happened to be louder than actions which made his statement seem false. So I
wonder Krause is feeling right now; does he truly realize the impact of his role
in bullying Livingston? I also wonder about the young daughters of Livingston;
how did their parents let them know of the situation revolving their mother? I
would like to think that the three girls are very proud of their mother for
standing up for herself and for the all the children that are victims of
bullying every day.
Jennifer's message truly is inspiring however when I researched the story more I found the message that the man left. And I'm truly torn about the story because it was not like the man was trolling her and being rude, he actually phrased it in a ... douche- baggy but mannerly -ish way:
ReplyDelete"Hi Jennifer,
It’s unusual that I see your morning show, but I did so for a very short time today. I was surprised indeed to witness that your physical condition hasn’t improved for many years. Surely you don’t consider yourself a suitable example for this community’s young people, girls in particular.
Obesity is one of the worst choices a person can make and one of the most dangerous habits to maintain. I leave you this note hoping that you’ll reconsider your responsibility as a local public personality to present and promote a healthy lifestyle."
However, either way, I'm glad people are inspired by her story. And I also believe, as a future filmmaker we will be criticized by those who don't like our work or even how we look. But that seems to be a given since in the media, you'll be working in the public eye.
I hate how society is never satisfied. If you're skinny, you're anorexic. If you're fat, you're obese. If you're nice, you're fake. If you're reserved, you're a jerk. They don't know who the people are behind the scenes, so they have no right to be judging someone that they don't even really know. I'm glad that Livingston didn't allow the worthless comment to affect her. The guy said that she isn't a good role model. I disagree. She a fantastic role model and we need more women like her to look up to.
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